Important Days of One's Life

 Have you ever contemplated the most significant days in your life? 

 

 

In life's journey, we often reflect on the moments that have shaped us and the milestones we've achieved. Recently, I embarked on a personal inquiry, asking friends, coworkers, and strangers a simple yet profound question: "What are the important days of your life?" The responses I received were diverse, ranging from career achievements and financial milestones to marriage and the joys of parenthood.

 

Indeed, career achievements, financial milestones, and the joys of parenthood are undoubtedly moments of celebration and fulfillment in our lives. They bring us a sense of accomplishment, happiness, and purpose. However, it's essential to recognize that while these are significant days in our personal narratives, they may not necessarily be the most crucial or defining days of our existence. Our accomplishments and relationships shape our path.

 

Perhaps you've heard the famous Mark Twain quote that asserts there are only two essential days: the day of your birth and the day you discover your purpose. While Twain's words are undoubtedly profound, life often unveils its wisdom in many ways.

 

However, Sadhguru is a renowned yogi and spiritual leader. He answered to someone who asked what the purpose of life is? As he explained, the purpose of life is to live. Sadhguru's message is clear and direct: the purpose of life is not some grand, elusive quest to find a hidden meaning or destiny. Instead, it's an invitation to fully engage with the experience of life itself. Life, in all its manifestations, is its own purpose. Every breath, every heartbeat, every moment we live is a unique and precious gift.

 

While Sadhguru's philosophy may seem deceptively simple, it carries profound wisdom. It invites us to live with full awareness, savor every moment, and find contentment in living itself. In doing so, we can free ourselves from the restlessness that often accompanies the pursuit of an elusive purpose.

 

 

Important days of our lives: One's Birth, Marriage, and Death.

 

 

 

In my journey through life, I've been fortunate to inherit a unique perspective from my beloved grandfather. My grandfather believes the first and last days are universally understood. The day of birth heralds our entry into this world, while the day of death signifies our departure. These bookends of existence are moments of profound transition. Still, it's the second day he considered particularly noteworthy—the day of marriage. 

 

 

Birth

 

The first day, the day of our birth, is universally celebrated. It's the moment we enter this world—a day filled with the promise of untold adventures, dreams, and the love of those who eagerly await our arrival. It marks the beginning of our unique journey, where we learn, grow, and shape our destinies.

 

Marriage

 

The second, often seen as the second most important day, is the day of marriage. It's a day when two souls come together in a union that transcends the individual and creates a family. My grandfather believed that this day was particularly significant because, through marriage, we bring forth new life or lives into this world. While marriage may happen more than once for many, each union has its own profound impact, leaving an indelible mark on their journey.

 

 

Death

 

The third day, the day of farewell or death, is a natural part of our human experience. It marks the moment we transition from this world to whatever lies beyond. My grandfather saw this as the day we leave this world, but it's also when we leave behind our legacy—the memories, the love, and the impact we've had on others. It's a reminder that our time here is finite, urging us to make the most of our days.

 

The Journey In-Between

 

Between these three significant days lies the tapestry of our lives—the experiences, challenges, joys, and sorrows that define who we are. These are the days when we laugh, love, learn, and grow. They are the moments when we express our true selves, forge connections, and leave our mark on the world.

 

While milestones like career success, financial stability, and the joys of family and relationships undeniably contribute to the richness of our lives, perhaps it's essential to recognize and honor the fundamental days that frame our existence.

Author

Ramesh Kayyam

www.talkintree.com